Showing posts with label Motivation Project. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Motivation Project. Show all posts

Thursday, March 26, 2015

90 Days In

Greetings,

90 days ago was the day after Christmas and when I (again) started to do something about my weight.  You may recall this blog post where I attempted to pay my children to help me (or at least not hinder me) with my weight loss.  I can tell you that they really have not kept up their end of the bargain to any great extent.  If you recall, this was supposed to start at the beginning of November.  I can tell you that their lack of assistance has not stopped me from keeping on the straight and narrow.  It just took me about 2 months to get started.  I think this chart says most of what this blog post is about…

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When I got on the scales this morning they read 176.4 lbs/  I did get a new bathroom scale and it is pretty awesome.  I think we have had our old scale most of our 18 years of marriage so it was time for a new one.  Anyway, I cannot recall a time in my married life where I ever weighed less than ~178 so this is new ground for me.  I only have 1.4 lbs left to reach my stretch goal of 175 lbs.  As long as I get to this before May 3rd (5 weeks from now), the kids will get their final payment and will have “earned” $50 each for their “help”.

When I first started I thought I might be able to get to 180 (as I have many times before).  But people kept telling me that it is harder to lose weight as you get older.  This is just not the case for me, yet.  Part of my problem and what gets in me back in trouble and into the 200 lbs range is this very thing, the fact that I know I can get back in shape in just 3 months.  Hopefully this time is different and I can stay in this weight range for a while.  I cannot count on my kids to help me though.

Jon

Monday, November 3, 2014

Let’s Try This Again

Faithful reader, you may recall my failed Motivation Project from around this time last year.  It ended up in me Abandoning the Project.  I did make some progress over the summer and did get down to just under 190 lbs. however another 9 lbs. has somehow snuck back on to my personage.  I have successfully lost this same weight in previous years (check out the Outsourcing My Body blog series from early 2012).  I had an idea over the weekend and I sent the following email to my children…
===BEGIN EMAIL===
Subject: New Project (and a way for you to make some money)
Body:
Children,
    I, your father, have gained some the weight back I have lost over the summer and now am needing your help (and I will pay you for it).
    Here is my plan: I currently weigh 199 pounds (I weighed myself this morning).  I have a goal of getting down to 180 pounds and a "stretch goal" of getting down to 175 pounds.  A stretch goal is an extra goal that you make in case you make your original goal and still want to continue.  It is a word we use at work here at HP.
    Anyway, I will make a few, smaller goals and I will reward YOU, my children, when I hit those goals.  The rewards will increase as I lose more weight and they will be as follows...

Weight Reached Cash Reward
195 $ 6
190 $ 14
185 $ 20
180 $ 26
175 $ 34
    So, as I reach each goal (195 pounds, 190 pounds, etc.) you will received the Cash Reward to SPLIT between yourselves.  For example, if I reach 195 pounds then you will each receive $3 (so $6 total reward).  When I reach 190 pounds, you will each get $7 (so $14 total reward) and so on.  If you add up all the rewards, it equals $100 (so $50 each).  This money will sit, unused, until I reach each goal.  I have the money with me as I write this email.  I will not give up / quit and spend it on something else.  Whatever is left of this $100 after 6 months (so May 3rd of 2015) I will put in the offering plate at church.
    Now, your job is to help me lose weight.  You can be creative but here are a few ideas that I have...
  1. Encourage me.  I need you to be POSITIVE since calling me things like Fat Old Man or Lazy No Good Cheap Father will not help.
  2. Exercise with me.  Get up early and take a walk (or run) with me.  Maybe we do the 200 Sit Up or 100 Push Up challenge together.  Maybe you force me to walk a dog (while you walk another dog alongside me) in the evenings.
  3. Don't tempt me.  Don't ask to eat out so often or make ice cream runs or ask for candy or other high calorie, no nutrition things around the house (I am tempted to eat what is in the house).  I am not saying we cannot do these things, but it will delay you getting your cash reward or cause you to lose it in the church offering bag.
  4. Be creative.  What else can you think of?  Maybe you set goals for me for steps per day (Son, I will need my pedometer back).
    Let me know if you have any questions.  We start tomorrow (or tonight if you like)!
Dad
===END EMAIL===
    So there you have it.  In 6 months I will be $100 poorer, one way or another, and I may or may not have lost all of the weight and hit my goal.  I will keep you posted.
Jon







Friday, January 17, 2014

Motivation Project–Abandonment

It comes as no surprise, not even to myself, that my Motivation Project did not work.  It has been so long, more than 4 months, since my last blog with this tag and honestly I don’t know where the wheels fell off exactly.  I know that I made a trip to Indiana for the wife’s 20 year high school reunion somewhere in there and something about being so close to so many local restaurants that served biscuits and gravy got me off the path.  If I had kept it up then I would be on day 152 and would have lost about 13% of my precious CD collection.

I have not abandoned the ultimate project behind this project though.  I still intend to get the weight off and my last blog kind of took off from that point.  I actually had started off again toward the end of December (albeit 15 lbs heavier) and then an ice storm hit rendering walking around the neighborhood quite impossible.  It was quite the event that ultimately cost me my only ice scraper that I still had left from my tenure in Indiana.  We were stuck inside the house for days and it was just enough to convince me to give up (again).

I have had so many false starts that I am tempted to give up.  Recently, the wife and I were re-watching one of the early episodes of the TV show “Til Death” (I will have to blog later of my new love for my Roku).  Some new neighbors had moved in and they were runners.  Seeing them prompted the wife to get back into shape (or at least appear to be a runner).  The husband, upon seeing his wife in jogging clothes, quipped, “What!? No, you said we could be fat. That was our 40th birthday present to each other.”  This is almost how I feel.  Like I want to give myself the present of not caring.  But, I owe it to my future self not to fall into that way of thinking (side note, I would be remiss if I did not make it clear that my wife is not yet 40).

Anyway, where do I go from here?  I thought about NOT writing this blog and then deleting my blog posts around this (now abandoned) project.  Obviously I did not do that.  It can serve as another reminder of how imperfect I am.  At any rate, the point of this blog was to close out this project and admit to the world that this motivation did not work for me.

Jon

Sunday, September 1, 2013

Motivation Project–Week 2

Well two weeks have passed in my Motivation Project and this week not much progress was made.  You can read this blog post for the rules.  Here are the results for the week.

Day Date Wt 1 Wt 2 Wt 3 Avg Wt Artist Album
8 8/26/2013 203.0 202.5 202.5 202.67 Al Denson Al Denson
9 8/27/2013 206.0 206.0 205.5 205.83 Al Denson Be the One
10 8/28/2013 203.0 202.5 202.5 202.67 Al Denson The Extra Mile
11 8/29/2013 203.5 203.0 203.0 203.17 Allies River, The
12 8/30/2013 202.0 201.5 201.5 201.67 August Burns Red Looks Fragile After All
13 8/31/2013 201.0 200.5 200.5 200.67 Bebo Norman Big Blue Sky
14 9/1/2013 201.5 201.0 201.0 201.17 Brenda Lee Side By Side Disc 2

So, not surprisingly, I still do not weigh 180 yet and so I have lost (7) more CDs from my collection.  Here is an updated chart of my progress.

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I am only down 2/3 lb. for the last 7 days so that is not so good.  I hit a bit of a bump in the road on Tuesday (Day 9) after a particularly bad day of eating on Monday.  I went out to eat for lunch and dinner and overate both times.  The spike in the chart shows this quite plainly and I shall not do that again soon.  I did regain my momentum and managed to lose 2/3 lbs. for the week.  Only 76 more days until I lose my Klank CD.  I have to lose just over a 1/4 lbs. per day on average to keep that CD in my collection.  Must stay motivated!

Jon

Sunday, August 25, 2013

Motivation Project–Week 1

Well one week has passed in my Motivation Project and all is well I suppose.  That is to say, I am still motivated to get down to 180 lbs. and I am making a little progress.  You can read this blog post for the rules.  Here are the results for the week.

Day Date Wt 1 Wt 2 Wt 3 Avg Wt Artist Album
1 8/19/2013 204.5 205.0 204.5 204.67 4 Him 4 Him
2 8/20/2013 202.0 202.5 202.0 202.17 4 Him The Basics of Life
3 8/21/2013 201.5 201.5 201.5 201.50 4 Him Face The Nation
4 8/22/2013 202.5 202.0 202.0 202.17 4 Him Obvious
5 8/23/2013 202.5 202.0 202.0 202.17 4 Him Ride, The
6 8/24/2013 201.5 201.5 201.5 201.50 4 Him Walk On
7 8/25/2013 202.0 201.5 202.0 201.83 Acappella Hymns For All The World

So, not surprisingly, I do not weigh 180 yet and so I have lost (7) CDs from my collection.  I did have a little fun and created a chart as well.  While I am a big fan of Excel, I am not a fan of charts but here it is.

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I am only down 1/3 lb. for the last 6 days so that is not so good but based on the last few times that I have attempted to lose weight I am not too concerned.  This is simply how my body works.  Overall I lost 3 lbs. and that is a good pace to be at for now.

I can tell you that the wife is very motivated as well but in a different way.  When she read my initial blog post about this project she began to dream of day 91 when she can make me throw away my Klank CD.  In previous weight loss attempts she was always in my corner but this time is different.  I think she is mentally calculating the number of CDs she truly wants to be rid of (Klank, Megadeth, Metallica, etc.) and then weighing that against me giving up and making this project null and void.  We will see how this goes.  53 days to go until I run out of CDs that I am OK doing away with.  This should be interesting.

Jon

Sunday, August 18, 2013

The Motivation Project

Pardon me while I write three paragraphs that are seemingly unrelated and then attempt to tie them together at the end.

Those of you who have followed my Listening Project from the beginning know that I have a lot of CDs.  And by a lot of CDs, I mean almost 1200.  I had a friend ask me the other day how much space my collection took up.  The answer is, “Less than you would think.”

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First of all, I am sorry for the poor quality of the photo.  This was taken with the daughter’s iPod Touch and I fear the lens was in need of a cleaning.  In my defense, without my reading glasses on, the photo looked OK to me on the iPod Touch’s small screen.  Anyway, each stack has 50 CDs in it (save for one stack).  When I buy a CD, I almost always take out the liner notes and CD and toss the case in the trash.  This saves a ton of space as you can imagine.  I had about 1/2 of my collection in carrying cases that I had picked up from here or there and the other half just sat stacked on a shelf in my bedroom closet or in boxes on the floor.  For this photo I have obviously removed the half of the collection from the carrying cases.  I now have all 1200 CDs on my bedroom shelf save for the few that the son keeps in the wife’s van for when they are out and about.  I will remind you that as I wrote the 46 blogs that comprise the Listening Project, I noted in a column if I would ever listen to a CD again or not.  The “No’s” were 60 in number.  So, one of those stacks in the above picture could represent the CDs in my collection that I will never listen to again.

We just finished a challenge at work.  I think it was called the Wellness Challenge.  They have this every year.  Basically you sign up and join a team (even if it is just a team of 1, which I did do one year).  You then decide how you want to challenge yourself.  You are given the option of counting your steps (you are give a pedometer if you choose this option), keeping track of your weight (as in trying to lose weight) or keeping track of the number of minutes you exercise each day.  You can do just one or any combination you like.  When the challenge starts, you log in each day and record your steps, weight and / or minutes exercised.  If you do this for the entire challenge (somewhere between 8 and 12 weeks depending on the year) then you earn a reward.  In years past the reward was a gift certificate of your choosing.  I think the first year was $25 and the next few years were $50.  I always participated and completed the challenge and then chose an Amazon.com gift certificate and then gave that to my pastor in Kokomo (even after I relocated to Texas).  At the end of the challenge we were sent an email to redeem our reward.  This year however an Amazon.com gift card was not an option and of the gift cards that were listed, none really interested me and in the end I just deleted the email.  This year I was able to get motivated to lose 15 lbs. in 8 weeks.  I liken it to when I got down to 180 lbs. a few summers ago and blogged about it each week.  There was something about recording my results so that others could see them that motivated me.  When I started the challenge for this year at work I weighed in at 215 lbs. and (doing the math) I ended at 200 lbs.  It has been a few weeks since then and I was back up to 206 when I weighed myself this morning.  I still want to get back to 180 and I just need some motivation.

One of my favorite authors is A. J. Jacobs.  I highly recommend his books and I feel a kindred spirit with him as he uses his life as a giant experiment (bringing his wife, and now sons along with him for the ride).  A few examples of my life experiments are the aforementioned Listening Project and also when I Outsourced My Body to my wife for (3) months.  His latest book is about health and in it he tries just about every credible health fad that is out there.  There was one small section in the book that really hit home with me and that was the 2 week timeframe where he tried to give up sugar entirely (even sugar that appeared naturally in food).  He had purchased a dehydrator previously in the book and was addicted to the dried fruit he had made.  He tried hiding the fruit to avoid temptation but that did not work.  He then tried a few other things to get him to avoid the dried fruit but none of them worked either.  Then he remembered a trick that he had read in a book on motivation.  He had to find something unpleasant to associate with giving into temptation.  He got his wife to take out their checkbook and write a $1,000 check to the American Nazi Party (he is Jewish by birth), sign it and put it in a stamped and addressed envelope and gave her strict instructions to mail the check should he eat one more piece of the sugary, dried fruit in the next (2) weeks.  This was just the motivation that he needed in order to avoid the temptation to eat the dried fruit.  When he looked at the dried fruit, he did not see a delicious snack, he saw it as a means for promoting Nazism.

OK, so there are my three, unrelated paragraphs and here is where I tie them all together (I hope).  First let me summarize here…

  1. I have a lot of CDs and 60 of them I will never listen to again.  The other 1100 or so are CDs that I would like to listen to again.
  2. I have gained 26 lbs. compared to 4 summers ago and would like to get back down to 180 lbs.
  3. I will only accomplish this via some motivating factor that is painful enough to keep me on the straight and narrow.

So, here is my (random) thought on how to lose weight.  Starting tomorrow, for every day that I weigh in and am over 180 lbs. I will throw away 1 CD.

Here are the basic ground rules…

  • I will weigh myself each morning in the same manner that I did 4 summers ago, namely right when I get up each morning.
  • I will record my weight in a spreadsheet (you had to know there would be a spreadsheet or two in the challenge and I still have my template from 4 summers ago).
  • If I weigh more than 180 lbs., I will select a CD to throw away.  I will do this every day until I weigh in at 180 lbs. (or lower) or until I run out of CDs.  In case you are interested, 1,188 (the number of CDs that I have) days from tomorrow is 11/19/2016.  So this project will have an end date.
  • I will not allow myself to buy any more CDs (or digital music) until I have reached 180 lbs. (this might be more painful than throwing away CDs).
  • For the first (60) days of the challenge, I will pick one of the CDs in my “would not listen to again” list.
  • On day 61, I will have to pick CDs that I had listed as a CD that I would listen to again.
  • On day 91, I will let my wife begin picking the CDs (I fear Megadeth and Klank will be the first to go).
  • Rather than dig through my pile of CDs on the closet shelf each day, I will just delete the mp3 files from my main computer and at the end of this project I will dig through the pile of CDs on the shelf and throw away the ones that I indicated that I would throw away (or on 11/19/2016 I will throw them all out, should it come to this however I might sell a lot of them on ebay as some are quite rare).
  • I will blog once a week with the weigh in results and the names of the CDs that were deleted.

So anyway, I just finished a coke (probably my last for a while) and am ready to begin this challenge tomorrow.  I will keep you posted.

Jon